Obsessions
An OCD obsession is an unwanted, intrusive, and recurring thought, urge, or mental image that causes significant anxiety, fear, or distress. These thoughts are typically ego-dystonic, meaning they are contrary to the individual’s values and sense of self, and most people with OCD recognize that the thoughts are irrational or excessive, but they struggle to refrain from their pull.
Obsessions often center around specific themes and intrude into consciousness when a person is trying to think about or do other things. The distress caused by these obsessions often leads to performing repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions) in an attempt to alleviate the anxiety or prevent a feared outcome.
Common Themes of Obsessions
Obsessions can attach to virtually any topic, but some common themes include:
- • Contamination: An excessive fear of coming into contact with germs, dirt, bodily fluids, chemicals, or getting or spreading an illness.
- • Harm/Violence: Fears of losing control and physically or sexually harming oneself or others, or being responsible for something terrible happening (e.g., a fire or burglary).
- • Order and Symmetry: A need for things to be arranged in a specific, precise way, or an intense distress when things feel “not right” or unbalanced.
- • Forbidden or Taboo Thoughts: Intrusive thoughts, images, or urges involving sexual, religious (scrupulosity), or aggressive subjects that are often deeply disturbing to the person experiencing them.
- • Doubt/Responsibility: Persistent doubts about having performed an action correctly, such as locking a door, turning off a stove, or making a mistake at work.
- • Relationship-related: Excessive worry about whether a partner is “the one,” fixation on their flaws, or your feelings for each other.